My wife's boss too a tee. She complained about his creepy advances, then abruptly stopped talking about him. many months later I discovered she'd been having an affair with him when she left me for him. She said it just happened after drinks at the hotel lounge at an overnight conference they attended. initially she thought she'd made a huge mistake, but the way he treated her during and the days after, she fell for him because of how quirky his attention was towards her. She then initiated their next encounter this time sober, & she knew she would devote herself to him. Since then she's been loyal to him and gives it to him when asked without question, and per his request ignored me.